In Matlockville, the concept of Togetherness was recently discussed amongst our family during one of our holiday gatherings. The focus of this concept is based on the premise that within relationships, togetherness is much more than being together. It’s an idea of desired existence that’s either achieved or not achieved. It evolves over time and travels through every emotion, joy, pain, disappointment, opportunity, and experience known to mankind.
The level of togetherness in your relationships is measured in proportion to the effort put forth, and the time and care you devote to achieving your shared desired level of togetherness. The reality of this concept is that within many of your relationships if the desire does not exist, then reaching the desired level is not achievable.
For your personal welfare, as you travel down this road called togetherness, be it professional or personal, you must know when to accept and understand both when the desired level (are we there yet) is shared and whether the effort is being made. On the other hand, you must know when (you can’t make the trip) it’s not.
Regarding the distance you desire to go, everyone may not be able to travel with you!
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